{"id":2248,"date":"2022-09-23T16:34:08","date_gmt":"2022-09-23T08:34:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.wisely.edu.hk\/?p=2248"},"modified":"2022-11-04T16:09:52","modified_gmt":"2022-11-04T08:09:52","slug":"become-a-secure-attachment-for-your-child-parent-child-interaction-is-especially-important","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wisely.edu.hk\/en\/become-a-secure-attachment-for-your-child-parent-child-interaction-is-especially-important\/","title":{"rendered":"Become a secure attachment for your child.Parent-child interaction is\u00a0especially important"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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Become a secure attachment for your child.Parent-child interaction is\u00a0especially important<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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Written By: Ms. Lui Shuk Jing, Family Dynamics Personal, Marriage and Family<\/span><\/p>\n

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There is a Chinese saying “the age of three determines 80” and the West has\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

another saying “The future is now”.It is clear that both Chinese and foreign parents have relevant parenting experience and believe that the early years are the golden age\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

for shaping the healthy growth of their children. Many parents understand that they are the key influencers of their children’s growth, and that their children will learn by\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

example, so they have to set an example and start to discipline them at a young age.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

I believe that parents focus on disciplining their children’s behavior, but recent studies in medicine, science, psychology, and early childhood development all point to the\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

interaction and relationship between parents and children as the foundation for their\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

children’s development.<\/span><\/p>\n

“<\/span>Attachment Theory research clearly shows that as early as 0-18 months of age, a\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

parent or primary caregiver forms a lifelong relationship pattern with the child that will be passed on for the rest of the child’s life. Once a secure attachment relationship is\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

established, it is like a secure base that can be effective in dealing with future turbulent situations and in building the ability to have a successful family relationship.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Conversely, once an insecure relationship pattern is established, it can have a negative\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Secure Attachment\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n

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The key to establishing a secure attachment pattern is for parents to establish a secure\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

attachment when their child is 0-18 months old. Parents can build secure attachments\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

based on the following suggestions<\/span><\/p>\n

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